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A Different Kind of Valentine's Day Tip
Sun Feb 08 2015 |
Tell me they didn’t really do this: Australia-based Jetstar Airways teamed with a Feng Shui Master to launch a Valentine’s campaign called “Love is in the Zodiac Pair” that supposedly uses Feng Shui to match compatible single flyers, then chooses the best seats, destinations, and activities to make them fall in love. For example, single flyers born in the Year of Horse are matched with flyers born in the Year of the Goat, and these couples should sit in row nine, 19 or 29 and travel to Jakarta.
Wait, it gets worse.
In the first seven hours after the campaign's launch, the site had already received more than 5,000 applications.
OK, shoot me now.
It ticks me off when anyone trivializes Feng Shui because I’ve seen it work for so many people, and it’s an especially cheap shot for Jetstar to invoke love and Valentine’s Day. This holiday already makes a whole lot of people feel insecure with its focus on idolized versions of love and the perfect way to spend the day.
Yes, I’ve been as guilty as every other Feng Shui practitioner who writes about Valentine’s Day. Right now the Articles Section of my web site includes 27 Feng Shui Tips to Rev Up Your Romance, Feng Shui Tips to Attract Love, and Romantic Dining Ideas. That last one even got me a mention in the Washington Post a few years ago. Mea culpa!
Does there really need to be so much pressure on one day of the year? My husband and I stopped going out on Valentine’s Day years ago because we got tired of the “assembly line” way restaurants handled the crush of diners. We discovered that if we go out the very next evening or a few nights later, the prices are back to normal and we don’t have to settle for their prix fixe menus. Lovely.
So, this year I’m offering some different tips for Valentine’s Day instead of my usual “rev up your love life” post.
First, let’s talk about how to be alone on V-day. In her great newsletter, Relationship Specialist Kelly Chisholm shares sage advice for spending Valentine’s Day alone in the article “How to Cope With Being Alone on Valentine's Day.” The tips range from getting together with single friends or special relatives and expanding your notion of what type of love this day is meant to celebrate. The message is that a Valentine can be anyone who’s special to you, including you - and that’s where the Feng Shui comes in.
The upper right area of your home is usually referred to as the Love/Relationship Area of the Feng Shui bagua, but it’s also related to self-esteem and self-love. So here’s my different kind of Feng Shui love tip: Plan to do some clearing and rearranging in that area on Valentine’s Day and you just might reap rewards beyond a box of chocolates and a red rose.